Memories Never Fade

sometimes i wonder why most of us refuse to stay in memories..is it because we have developed a notion that memories weaken us or they sway us away from present world?? most of time we all pretend that we are very strong -hearted and are far away from world of fantasies, from world of memories...but pause and think for a while..sometimes we all wish to get away from the real harsh world..we look for somebody whose memories give us reason to live...i m sure in everybody's life there is somebody special whose memories make u laugh, make u smile, force u to lose urself someday..not always memories weaken u, sometimes they help u to move ahead, to enjoy ur present because of past...its on u, u can be sad because time changes and few moments become memories or u can be happy because u have those memories afresh with u...times might change but memories never fade so dont ever refuse to stay in memories, enjoy them and make ur present more lively, more joyful..